“Don’t Fight Back, Fight Forward”

“Don’t Fight Back, Fight Forward”

A week after measurable snow here in the Boston area, we are enjoying temperatures in the 80’s for a few days. Good for the soul to have the sunshine and warmth after a hard and long winter. In my last newsletter, I wrote about how people in relationship work with me...
When Conflict Shows Up, Bring On Your Power and Presence

When Conflict Shows Up, Bring On Your Power and Presence

As promised, today’s article is about how showing up with the power of your presence when conflict arises will create outcomes better than avoiding conflict. Conflict seems to be universally feared, the irony being that in order to avoid conflict, people will often...
“Have You Forgotten the Most Important Valentine of All?”

“Have You Forgotten the Most Important Valentine of All?”

“Have you forgotten the most important Valentine of all?” We are heading into Valentine’s Day and I remember with fondness, decorating many a shoebox with glitter and paper lace doilies for my classmates to put their Valentines into. Making the choice of...
“Why Being a Good Girl Won’t Bring You Happiness”

“Why Being a Good Girl Won’t Bring You Happiness”

“Why Being a Good Girl Won’t Bring You Happiness” I am truly blessed to work with women who courageously take up change for being happier in their life and relationships. They are tired of compensating for their unhappiness with food, or shopping, or...
“Are Ghosts Haunting Your Relationships?”

“Are Ghosts Haunting Your Relationships?”

In my last article “The Calculus of Relationship”  I talked about how simply pointing fingers at who is wrong in a relationship not going so well, does not make things better. In this follow-up article, I talk about how what may be wreaking havoc in a relationship may...
Choose Love

Choose Love

 It is a hard sell some days to convince clients whose heart has been broken, betrayed, or bruised to choose love (again). While your heart will go to the mat for choosing to love again, your mind (and friends unhappy) will call you a fool for choosing love. And,...